Reported 8 months ago
A male netizen complained on June 15, 2024, about his long-distance girlfriend's request for daily meetups, forcing him to shuttle via high-speed rail for dates and foot the bill for expensive meals. The girlfriend, who resides in a different location, expects constant physical togetherness, prompting the boyfriend to commute daily for meetups, including covering the dining expenses alone. She insists on dining at restaurants with per-person costs exceeding 500 yuan, leading him to exclaim, 'My 60,000 yuan monthly salary is almost entirely consumed by my girlfriend.' Despite contemplating reducing their meeting frequency, the girlfriend compares him to past partners who willingly met daily and treated each other to meals, questioning his inability to do the same. Feeling financially strained due to bearing not only living expenses but also their dating costs, the boyfriend finds himself unable to save money and acknowledges that past partners broke up with her for the same reasons. Despite contemplating a breakup, he hesitates due to concerns about his girlfriend's reactions, as she often claims her past partners could meet her demands and shifts the blame onto him for any issues that arise.
Source: YAHOO